Leliphi elona xesha lilungileyo lokonwabela ibhafu yakho yangaphandle?

Kwabo banethamsanqa ngokwaneleyo lokuba nebhafu yokuhlambela yangaphandle, ayisiyiyo nje into yokuba nesongezo esitofotofo kwikhaya lakho kodwa ukwazi ukuba ulenze nini uninzi lwalo.Ngelixa iibhafu zangaphandle ziluyolo unyaka wonke, kukho amaxesha apho amava anokuba yinto ekhethekileyo ngokwenene.

 

Intwasahlobo lixesha lokuhlaziya, kwaye ibhafu yakho yangaphandle inokuba yinxalenye yale nkqubo yokuhlaziya.Amaqondo obushushu aphakathi kunye neentyatyambo ezidubulayo zenza kube lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuphumla kunye nokuntywila kwizinto ezibonwayo kunye nezandi zendalo.Lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuqalisa usuku lwakho okanye uthobe ngorhatya.

 

Ngelixa iibhafu zangaphandle zihlala zinxulunyaniswa namaxesha apholileyo, zingonwatyelwa ngexesha lasehlotyeni.Kubusuku obufudumeleyo basehlotyeni, cinga ukwehlisa iqondo lobushushu kwibhafu yakho ukuze ufumane amava ahlaziyayo.Yindlela entle kakhulu yokuzipholisa ngelixa ujonge ezinkwenkwezini okanye unetheko lasehlotyeni nabahlobo.

 

Njengoko ihlobo lisiya kutshona ekwindla, kukho into engummangaliso malunga nokuntywila ebhafini kwingokuhlwa epholileyo, epholileyo.Umahluko phakathi komoya obandayo kunye namanzi afudumeleyo, aqanduzelayo uyayolisa.Ungaphumla, uphumle, kwaye ukonwabele ukutshintsha kwemibala yexesha lonyaka.

 

Ubusika buguqula ibhafu yakho yangaphandle ibe yindawo yokuphumla epholileyo.Khawube nomfanekiso wakho ungqongwe yingubo yekhephu ngoxa untywiliselwa kamnandi emanzini ashushu.Ngamava awodwa athi aphumle kwaye avuselele.Qinisekisa ukugcina ibhafu yakho yokuhlambela igcinwe kakuhle ngeenyanga zasebusika ukuze wenze okuninzi kweli xesha lonyaka.

 

Ibhafu yakho yangaphandle yeyona ndawo ifanelekileyo yeziganeko ezikhethekileyo, nokuba lusuku lokuzalwa, isikhumbuzo, okanye usuku lothando.Yenza ezo zihlandlo zikhumbuleke ngakumbi ngokuseta indawo enamakhandlela, umculo, kunye nebhotile ye-bubbly.

 

Nanini na xa uziva uxinezelekile, nokuba kusemva kosuku olude emsebenzini okanye ucelomngeni lokuzilolonga, ibhafu yakho yangaphandle inokukunika isiqabu.Amanzi afudumeleyo kunye neejethi zokuphulula zisebenza ngokumangalisayo ukuphumla kunye nokunciphisa uxinzelelo.

 

Ukutshona kwelanga lixesha lomlingo lokusebenzisa ibhafu yakho yangaphandle.Imibala etshintshayo yesibhakabhaka, idityaniswe nokuzola kwebhafu yakho, yenza amava angenakulibaleka.Yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuthomalalisa phantsi kwaye ucamngce ngolu suku.

 

Ukuqukumbela, elona xesha lilungileyo lokonwabela ibhafu yakho yangaphandle ixhomekeke kwizinto ozikhethayo kunye namava owafunayo.Ixesha ngalinye kunye nesiganeko sinobuhle obukhethekileyo, kwaye ibhafu yakho yokuhlambela inokuziqhelanisa nokubonelela ngokuphumla kunye nolonwabo olunqwenelayo.Nokuba yintsasa yasentwasahlobo eshushu, imini yasehlotyeni enelanga, ingokuhlwa epholileyo ekwindla, okanye ubusuku obunekhephu, ibhafu yakho yokuhlambela inokuba yindawo yakho yokuphumla unyaka wonke, ikubonelela ngokuphumla, ukuhlaziya kunye nolonwabo olunyulu.