Kulabo abanothando olujulile lokubhukuda, ukufuna ichibi lomphakathi elifanele kungaba yinto eqhubekayo. Kodwa kuthiwani uma ngikutshela ukuthi ungaba nechibi lakho lokubhukuda elihlakaniphile lesizini yonke egcekeni lakho? Kulungile - ngaleli chibi elenziwe ngokwezifiso, ungajabulela ukubhukuda ukhululekile ekhaya lakho, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yisiphi isizini.
Amachibi okubhukuda omphakathi angaba izindawo ezinhle zokubhukuda, kodwa anezinkinga eziningi. Izixuku, amahora ambalwa okusebenza, kanye namazinga okushisa amanzi avame ukuba aphansi kakhulu kungaba yinto engathandeki.
Enye yezinzuzo ezibalulekile zamachibi ethu okubhukuda ahlakaniphile asebenza isikhathi sonke yisistimu yawo yokulawula izinga lokushisa ehlakaniphile. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukushisa okushisayo kwehlobo noma izinsuku ezibandayo zasebusika, ungagcina izinga lokushisa lokubhukuda elifanele unyaka wonke. Cabanga nje ukuthi uyakwazi ukucwila okuqabulayo ngosuku olushisayo luka-Agasti noma ujabulele ukubhukuda okuphumuzayo ebuhleni obuzolile bendawo embozwe yiqhwa ngoDisemba - konke kungenzeka ngechibi lokubhukuda elihlakaniphile elisebenza isikhathi sonke.
Ukufakwa kuyashesha futhi akunazinkinga uma kuqhathaniswa namachibi avamile. Lawa machibi okubhukuda ahlakaniphile asebenza isikhathi sonke angafakwa ezinsukwini ezimbalwa. Akusekho inqubo ende yokwakha kanye nomsindo kanye nokungcola okuhambisana nayo. Igceke lakho lizoguqulwa libe yindawo yangasese yasemanzini ngokushesha.
Ukulungisa nakho kulula. Iningi lalawa machibi lifakwe izinhlelo zokuhlunga ezithuthukisiwe, okuqinisekisa amanzi ahlanzekile futhi acwebezelayo. Khohlwa ngokunakekelwa okukhathazayo nokuthatha isikhathi okuhambisana namachibi omphakathi noma amachibi endabuko. Uma ungawanakekeli kakhulu, ungachitha isikhathi esiningi ujabulela ichibi lakho kunokulihlanza nokuliphatha.
Ubumfihlo kanye nokulula kuyizinto ezengeziwe ezizuzisayo. Ungabhukuda ngejubane lakho ngaphandle kokwabelana ngendawo yakho nabantu ongabazi. Akusekho ukuya echibini lomphakathi lendawo noma ukunamathela esimisweni salo - ulwazi lwakho lokubhukuda lulawulwa nguwe ngokuphelele.
Uma ungumthandi wokubhukuda, umqondo wokuba nedamu lokubhukuda elihlakaniphile elihlala isikhathi eside egcekeni lakho kufanele ube yinto ekhangayo. Njengoba lilawula izinga lokushisa, ukufakwa kalula, ukulungiswa okuphansi, ubumfihlo, kanye nokulula, linikeza ulwazi lokubhukuda olungafani nolunye. Valelisa ekufuneni ichibi lomphakathi elifanele futhi sawubona ekujabuleni okungapheli kwasemanzini ekhaya.