Amanyathelo asixhenxe okuzifudumeza ngaphambi kokudada

Emehlweni abantu abaninzi, ukudada lukhetho lokuqala lokuqina kwehlobo. Enyanisweni, ukudada ngumdlalo ofanelekileyo kuzo zonke iisizini. Ukuqengqeleka okumbalwa echibini eliluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka akuyi kusiphumza nje kuphela, kodwa kuya kusinceda siqinise umzimba wethu, kususe ukudinwa, kwaye kudale umzimba ogudileyo nomhle. Nangona kunjalo, ngaphambi kokuba ukonwabele ukuphola, qiniseka ukuba wenza umthambo wokuzifudumeza!
Ukuzifudumeza ngaphambi kokudada akunakuthintela nje ukwenzakala kwezemidlalo, kodwa kukwathintela nokuxinana emanzini nokuhlangabezana neengozi zokhuseleko. Ubungakanani bomthambo wokuzifudumeza bunokuqinisekiswa ngokweqondo lobushushu, kwaye ngokubanzi umzimba unokubila kancinci.
 
Emva kokudada, abadada banokwenza umthambo wokungenisa umoya emanzini ukuze baqhelane nokusingqongileyo kwamanzi ngokukhawuleza. Ngokubanzi, lukhetho olufanelekileyo kuwe ukwenza umthambo wokubaleka, umthambo wesandla sasimahla, ukolula izihlunu kunye nemisipha kunye neentshukumo zokulinganisa ukudada ngaphambi kokudada.
 
Ngethemba ukuba ezi ndlela zilandelayo zokuzilolonga ziya kukunceda:
1. Jikelezisa intloko yakho phambili nangasemva ngasekhohlo nasekunene, wolula izihlunu zentamo yakho, uze uphinde izihlandlo ezili-10.
2. Jikelezisa ingalo enye emagxeni akho, uze ujike iingalo zombini emagxeni akho.
3. Phakamisa ingalo enye phezulu, goba uye kwelinye icala uze wolule kangangoko unako, tshintsha iingalo uze uphinde.
4. Hlala phantsi, imilenze yakho idityaniswe, uze uqonde ngqo phambi kwakho. Yolula izandla zakho phambili ukuze uchukumise iinzwane zakho, ubambe, uze uphinde.

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5. Yolula isandla esinye ngasemva kwentloko uye kwelinye igxalaba, ukhombe ingqiniba phezulu, uze ubambe ingqiniba ngesinye isandla ukuze utsale icala elichaseneyo. Tshintsha iingalo. Phinda.
6. Hlala phantsi imilenze yakho ivuleke, goba umzimba wakho kwicala elinye ukuze ubuso bakho bube nxamnye nedolo lakho, uze uphinde kwelinye icala.
7. Hlala phantsi umlenze omnye uqonde ngqo phambi kwakho kwaye umlenze omnye ugobile ngasemva, umzimba wakho wolulwe phambili uze ugobe ngasemva. Phinda amaxesha amaninzi, utshintshele komnye umlenze. Uze ujike amaqatha akho kancinci.